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What
Is A Dad?
A dad is someone
who wants to catch you before you fall but instead picks you up, brushes
you off, and lets you try again.
A dad is someone
who wants to keep you from making mistakes but instead lets you find your
own way, even though his heart breaks in silence when you get hurt.
A dad is someone
who holds you when you cry, scolds you when you break the rules, shines
with pride when you succeed, and has faith in you even when you fail...
Dad, you're everything a dad should be and some.
What Is A
Father?
A father is
a person who is forced to endure childbirth without an anesthetic. He growls
when he feels good and laughs very loud when he is scared half-to-death.
A father never feels entirely worthy of the worship in a child's eyes.
He is never
quite the hero his daughter thinks. Never quite the man his son believes
him to be. And this worries him sometimes. (So he works too hard to try
to smooth the rough places in the road of those of his own who will follow
him.)
A father is
a person who goes to war sometimes...and would run the other way except
that war is part of an important job in his life (which is making the world
better for his child than it has been for him).
Fathers grow
older faster than other people, because they, in other wars, have to stand
at the train station and wave good-bye to the uniform that climbs on board.
And, while mothers cry where it shows, fathers stand and beam ...outside
...and die inside.
Fathers are
men who give daughters away to other men who aren't nearly good enough,
so that they can have children that are smarter than anybody's.
Fathers fight
dragons almost daily. They hurry away from the breakfast table off to the
arena, which is sometimes called an office or a workshop. There they tackle
the dragon with three heads: Weariness, Works, and Monotony. And they never
quite win the fight, but they never give up. Knights in shining armor;
fathers in shiny trousers. There's little difference as they march away
each workday.
And when Father
passes away, and after a good rest, he won't just sit on a cloud and wait
for the girl he's loved and the children she bore. He'll be busy there
too...repairing the stars, oiling the gates, improving the streets, smoothing
the way.
Susan Ceylise
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