Portrait of a Friend
I can't give solutions to
all of life's problems, doubts, or fears.
But I can listen to you,
and together we will search for answers.
I can't change your past
with all its heartache and pain,
or the future with its untold
stories.
But I can be there now when
you need me to care.
I can't keep your feet from
stumbling.
I can only offer my hand
that you may grasp it and not fall.
Your joys, triumphs, successes,
and happinesses are not mined;
yet I can share in your
laughter.
Your decisions in life are
not mine to make, or to judge; I can
only support you , encourage
you, and help you when you ask.
I can't prevent you from
falling away from friendship, from
your values, from me. I
can only pray for you, talk to you and
wait for you.
I can't give you boundaries,
which I have determined for you,
but I can give you the room
to change, room to grow, room to
be yourself.
I can't keep your heart from
breaking and hurting, but I can cry
with you and help you pick
up the pieces and put them back in
place.
I can't tell you who you
are.
I can only love you and
be your friend.
Caramel_Kitty